BRIGHTON LE SANDS WEDDING | Argie + Cha

When is the perfect time to get married?

Argie and Cha are two of my closest friends. A lot of couples dreamt about their wedding. I am sure that Argie and Cha wanted to get married. Knowing them both, a big white gown, thousands of guests, a massive wedding cake were never the things that were important to them. Their relationship is not only built with their love for each other but most importantly, their FRIENDSHIP for each other.

I am a big believer that a marriage that is built on friendship is a marriage that is built to last a lifetime. Marriage and friendship are both built respect and trust. Both elements must be there. Both elements must be mutual. Any friendship, without the other element, without trust or respect, any friendship or marriage will crumble.

On this day, Argie and Cha have expressed the HIGHEST state of friendship through marriage. They did it suddenly too. Everyone was caught in surprise. Everyone was only told they are getting married on the weekend. I was only told to shoot their wedding a few days before their wedding day. 

Was it sudden?

Was it too soon?

Does it need more planning?

I say there is no perfect timing to get married. THERE IS ONLY NOW.

Happy is the person who learns to wait as he prays and never loses his patience. For God’s time is the best time.

“He had made everything so beautiful in His time: also, He had set the world in their heart so that no man can find out the work that God has made from the beginning to the end.” - Ecclesiastes 3:11